Fight for Joy Every Day

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 ⁣Whether you’re dealing with divorce and want to fall to pieces every day or dealing with being isolated at home during this season in our lives, Fight for joy.⠀⠀⠀
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Whatever situation you’re in: divorce, isolation, maybe both (maybe more), it can be really hard to seek out the light.⠀
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Trust me. I know. I was there. When my marriage ended, I fell to pieces. I wanted to give up. I suffered under the weight of grief for so long. Joy was the last thing on my mind. ⠀⠀⠀
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And now I’m here. Isolated. Missing everything we all are missing. ⠀⠀⠀
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In both situations though, it’s in your control to not only seek out joy in your life but to fight for it. ⠀⠀⠀
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Start small. Take it day by day. Identify what will bring you joy TODAY and fight for that today. ⠀⠀⠀
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If joy is writing anger-filled pages in your journal all about your ex, do it. ⠀⠀⠀
If joy is downing the whole bottle of wine, do it. ⠀⠀⠀
If joy is watching Netflix all day, do it. ⠀⠀⠀
If joy is decluttering, do it. ⠀⠀⠀
If joy is staying in bed all day, do it. ⠀⠀

There’s no judgement. ⠀⠀⠀

So, what will bring you joy today? What are you going to fight for today?